Time: < 2 Hours
STEP 1: Purchase the books and read one or both of them. They will give you very insightful information about yourself and others.
STEP 2: Take notes and determine your love language and try to determine your significant other’s and/or kids’ as well. Suggest that your partner/significant other read the same book and follow the same steps.
STEP 3: Share your information with your loved ones. Give them examples of how they have shown you love or can show you love if they are missing the mark. Discuss your love style that you’ve learned based on your upbringing and how it’s either working or not working for you.
STEP 4: Discuss what you can do differently to better speak other’s language and help others feel love in the way that affects them most positively. This may be a new experience for you, so give yourself and others grace. Provide feedback on what you like or don’t like. This will be invaluable for your self-awareness and your relationship.
STEP 5: Discuss what you’ve learned with other friends/family members so their relationships can be enhanced as well.
