Time: 30 Minutes - 1 Hour
STEP 1: Whether you want to date online, or meet someone through mutual friends, or a more natural setting, you must decide what type of characteristics you are looking for in a partner. Spend 10 minutes writing down everything you want to see within your partner. Gaining clarity on the type of person you are looking for is important when wanting to get into a more serious relationship. As you write your list of qualities, make sure to reflect on previous relationships you’ve had to avoid characteristics that you didn’t appreciate.
STEP 2: After creating your list of qualities, it’s time to put it into action. If online dating sounds interesting then it is time to create your profile on an app. As you design your profile, make sure to choose pictures and create a bio that reflects the type of partner you desire.
If you are uninterested in online dating, then reach out to a friend or two and ask them to accompany you on this journey. Begin brainstorming the places you like to be, such as a gym, church, dinner, bars, the park, etc. In order to find a partner that will fit your qualities, you need to attract them in places you enjoy being. As you go out to these places, do it with the intention of meeting someone new. If your body language is closed off, the chances of meeting a new individual are much slimmer.
STEP 3: Enjoy this journey. Recognize that you may not meet your “dream partner” right away, but as you continue on this search the right person will eventually come to you. You may even add to your list of qualities as you meet more people.
STEP 4: Do not wait for a partner to start experiencing life the way you want to. When you are living your best life, it radiates through your energy. This energy will be more likely to attract the right person for you.
